Three Parts: Communicating Effectively Treating Each Other Well Improving an Unhealthy Relationship Community Q&A Healthy relationships allow you to express your individuality (both with and without your partner), bring out the best in both of you, and encourage growth. [1] Especially if you are in a new relationship, it’s best to set a foundation for a positive and healthy relationship from the start. By setting your focus on respect and helpful communication, you can enjoy a healthy and satisfying relationship. Part 1 Edit Communicating Effectively 1 Speak up. Don't expect your partner to be able to read your mind or “figure it out.” If you have a need or want to express something, you need to communicate it yourself. [2] It’s not fair to you or your partner when you don’t communicate your needs. Likewise, don’t hold in the things that bother you. If something is bothering you, say something to your partner. [3] If you don’t know how to start a...